There’s nothing better than a man with a 14in french catheter
We have so much in common
Our turn ons are roho cushions, padded arm rests, wheelie tippers and straight plated footrest
My pet name for him is my little Quickie
His pet name for me is Apria
He’s my wheelchair doctor when I’m feeling a little sick and needy
For fore play we use a reacher and a magnifying glass to arouse our senses.
Our checklist for sexual play consist of gel and a pump. (use your imagination)
When we feel real kinky we invite our Personal Assistant in our circle to assist us.
My Disabled Lover knows what I like and what I don’t like
He knows I like my under-pad/ chucks spread on the bed horizontal not vertical
He knows I like my therapeutic pillow between my knees not my thighs
He knows I like my night bag hung on the side of the bed toward head not foot of the bed
When I come home from work feeling tight, he does this freaky thing called Range of Motion to loosen me up.
What a man! Ladies
Disabled Lovers are like One...
A 1992 valedictorian of Jesse Spaulding High school, a member of the National Honor Society. Ms. Heffner attended the University of Illinois at Chicago for 2 years and Harold Washington college for a year.
Ms. Heffner started at the bottom at Access Living as a staff associate for the Personal Assistant and Healthcare team for a year. She was hired full time as a Deinstitutionalization coordinator assisting young people with disabilities in moving out of nursing homes at Access Living in 1998. Her current position is Home Again Coordinator, she assist seniors citizens in moving out of nursing homes back into the community living.. She has assisted 112 people to move out of institutions into their own apartments. She was awarded the Brian Hall Hooded Gargoyle award for Advocacy as a Young Professional from the Council for Disability Rights in 2001. She continues to blossom as a disability advocate.